What I Am Looking For
Reminders of our roles as Muslim spouses Non-negotiables and disclaimers.
Full practice of our faith, good character, and living a life of Sunnah is a must: 100% HALAL income and No involvement in RIBA. We lower our gazes to safeguard our eyes from zina, avoiding music and mixed-gender gatherings. My husband provides a home, and maintaining our accustomed standard is paramount for our comfort, safety, and security.
As a devout Muslim wife, I offer my husband love, loyalty, and respect for his leadership as he is the khadeem and Amir, praying for his happiness, safety, well-being, and success in both worlds. I take satisfaction in guarding my innocence and caring for our home in his absence, nurturing a positive and harmonious atmosphere. Striving to meet my husband's physical and emotional needs as a priority actively engage in acts of kindness, and safeguard our confidentiality. I understand the importance of communication, empathy, upholding Islamic values, encouraging virtuous deeds, and contributing to the success of our marital relationship.
I believe my husband embraces significant responsibilities towards his wife, guided by a strong sense of protection for her, he prays for her safety, happiness, well-being, and success in both worlds, safeguarding her honor, assets, and confidentiality, giving her lifelong financial security and safety, covering all living expenses, and providing a comfortable home to her accustomed standard. Enjoying permissible blessings in life, he is committed to providing emotional support, companionship, love, and comfort, all while respecting her opinions and requests and giving her space and privacy in their marital relationship. Actively, he participates in sharing household duties; he recognizes the shared responsibility of managing their home, emphasizing his dedication to a blissful marital life.
My husband prioritizes congregational prayers in Jammat. He regularly sits in the company of friends of Allah to recognize the marifa of Allah, do the Islah, control and subjugate the nafs, act on the faith, and boost spiritual stamina. I pray my spouse frequents the Islamic Dawah Academy masjid for prayers and sits in the company of Shaykh Saleem. This city is the best for learning authentic knowledge and executing our deen.
Commitment to waking me up for Tahajjud and Fajr prayers, encouraging virtuous deeds, and serving as a positive role model.
I am not vaccinated and seek a husband with the same belief and complete trust in Allah for protection. Nothing can benefit or harm without the will of Allah.
I am a smoker. It's hard to give up. I was around smokers; you become the company you keep. I learned life lessons, not having known the Influence of bad companions. My husband is compassionate, patient, and nonjudgmental. Perhaps my husband is a non-smoker; it might help me give up.
I am not seeking a polygamous marriage or sharing my husband with other women. Please be very clear about your intent.
We both dislike negativity and avoid misguidance and sins such as gossip, anger, arguments, debates, time-wasting, stinginess, cowardice, arrogance, pride, lies, breaking trusts and promises, obscenity, immorality, immodesty, and causing harm—all atomic spiritual diseases and traits that correspond with Shaytaan.
Shaytaan and Nafs Ammarah cause mischief between husband and wife and destroy beautiful families. If you are a divorcee, you will understand where I am coming from. Allah, please protect us from the shararat of nafs and shayateen Ameen.
We must sit in the company of the pious to deeply understand our nafs and have the willingness to change our many shortcomings. It's apparent to me, and I am working on my faults to eradicate all of them—reminders and keeping the company of righteous companions.
I pray the spouse is fully onboard to support both of us on our journey to righteousness. No one can change us unless we admit and recognize our faults and are willing to make changes in ourselves. Allah helps those who help themselves.
We all want peace and success in our lives and marriages. Causes and effects in life are the divine laws of Allah. The formula is to stay away from Allah's displeasure, control our nafs, and make taubah immediately when we transgress. Allah, please give us all nek hidayah and guidance to walk our talk and stay firm on the straight path. Ameen.
We are always striving towards good intentions, thoughts, words, actions, habits, beautiful characters, and destiny, expressing gratitude in abundance. Always thinking good of Allah and his creation. Allah says, "I am as my servant thinks of me." Believers never harm with their tongues or hands, endorsing good and prohibiting evil. We love doing khidmah and Ikraam of the creation. If we show compassion and kindness to his creation, then Allah will shower his Rahma on us the day we need it most.
I believe in mutual understanding and compromises to solve issues. Consultations, mashwarah, and respectful communication will help solve and prevent pointless conflicts. We are all for discovering solutions when problems arise to resolve them before they cause hurt, anger, resentment, annoyance, grief, or oppression—quick apologies and making up for any wrongs said or done, and no bitterness after forgiving each other. Allah paak, please help and protect us always to forgive and forget and be cheerful and loving to each other. Ameen.
Islam encompasses a complete way of life: daily rituals of Salah, Quran recitation and reflection, Zikr, Duas, Istigfaar, Salawaat, Muhasabah, Muraqabah, and implementing sunnah etiquette and adab of living. Muhasharah-audit ourselves before the reckoning is done on us, and our priority is avoiding sins, negativity, and fitnah. We are on the path of spiritual rectification, Islah-an-nafs.
We practice the profound teachings of Islam and the path to finding inner peace, contentment, and spiritual rectification—the realization of our life's true purpose. We are here very temporarily to earn good deeds, die a good death, and depart from this world to our permanent eternal hereafter, relying on Allah's mercy without any reckoning.
Allah, please make us do virtuous deeds, turn all our faults into good deeds, do not punish us, make us nafs-mutmainnah, forgive us, please gift us with grateful hearts, sakeenah, comfort, beauty khair afiyah, in our deen dunya, and akhirah, an easy life and death, and a compatible life partner. We are happy and content with each other. Allah, please guide us to attain your love and pleasure and reward us with your magnificent vision and home close to you in Jannat ul Firdaws and the company of our beloved Prophet Sallalahu Alaihe Wassalam Ameen.
I look forward to a life filled with love, precious moments, mutual respect, happiness, prosperity, and companionship for the sake of Allah, and May Allah bless us with a beautiful life in both worlds, Ameen.
Allah has inspired me to be very clear and ask for a husband who will fulfill our visions and dreams and make us happy in both worlds. Insha Allah,—I hope you agree.
Thank you for considering my profile. If you believe we have lots in common, please get in touch and connect via a video call to proceed. Please refrain from un-Islamic behavior during our discussions. I have a positive outlook and high expectations from Allah, and I am taking the means to find a spouse who shares identical aspirations. Please ensure your message details our compatibility.
May Allah make it easy for us to find each other and facilitate our union with Khair and Afiyah Ameen.
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